Manglik ? relax, no tension

Marriage is one of the most important events in human life. A happy marriage means “heaven” while an unhappy marriage is like a hell. Mars is selected for misery in married life because this planet is malefic fiery, passionate, disastrous, and can play havoc in bringing extra-marital affair, dispute, injury, divorce, accident, burns and even murder. Mars when aspected by Venus it gives a man strong passion in love, sensual disposition , extra sex drive, impatience, affection & warmth in romance.

Is Mars really destructive ? Can manglik and non-manglik marry with each other ? Does horoscope matching really help ? How can we achieve marital bliss ? I intend to bring out the myth about matching of horoscope and astro-analysis into marital happiness. The task of marriage counseling is indeed of very onerous responsibility which an astrologer should discharge with conscience and sincerity.

A deep study of Mars reveals that physical fitness sometimes does not seem important in married life because man needs harmony at the mental and spiritual levels. The dosha can sometimes give skin disease, mental aberrations ; suicide tendency , sex , perversions , high BP , irritable disposition, piles, urinary complaints, infertility , impotency , jaundice, unwanted surgical operation & accident which cause disharmony in married life. I have seen that in some cases these problems accur suddenly after the marriage. However astrolgy can help to some extent in finding the family bliss.

Marriage counseling is a complicated affair in which the planet Mars who is a basic root( many astrologers think) of increasing rate of divorces and infidelity in conjugal life. According to me the present practice of Matching of horoscope can be faulty and misleading. I have thoroughly gone through the system of horoscope matching and it has been found that inspite of a tally of 26 Gunas out of 36 Gunas with no Dosha the couple is leading a miserable married life. In another case I have found that the tally of less Gunas has given a happy married life. Such cases have disappointed the believer in Astrology. I can confidently reason out that matching has not been done properly for one reason or the other viz. mental affinity, sexual compatibility, domestic happiness etc.

Whereas I sincerely believe that wise and judicious matching of horoscopes can lead to a fairly stable and happy marriage. Matching chart for marriage has its own scope and also its limitations. Chart which shows loss of spouse within months or a year or a year or two after marriage can benefit from astrological; counselling through matching and manage to push the eventuality to a reasonably distant future time. Since a chart is bound by KARMIC parameters, matching cannot bring out miracles. But it can be an effective tool to fight premature loss of spouse and minimise other problems that occur between spouses.

A keen observer and devoted astrologer says that in certain cases that there is good compatibility but Bhav Melapak is absent resulting in unhappiness in marital life. On the contrary there are cases when the horoscopes are weak in compatibility but marital life is quite happy if Bhava Melapak is present. Most of the astrologers attribute ” MARS” ( Mangal) for an unhappy union. It is better not to match the horoscopes merely on the basis of Mars being in unhappy house.

After analysing thousands of match making horoscopes I confidently assert that “marriage is a meaningful institution” and it should be understood with a logic and a complete study of planets. It depends on the approach and process of in-depth study of an astrologer. If the Mangal mania is understood properly then most of couples will be able to lead a very happy and successful married life.

After analysing thousands of match making horoscopes I confidently assert that “marriage is a meaningful institution” and it should be understood with a logic and a complete study of planets. It depends on the approach and process of in-depth study of an astrologer. If the Mangal mania is understood properly then most of couples will be able to lead a very happy and successful married life.

Logically ; if a specific chart suffers from complete Kaal Sarp Dosha ; alongwith combust Saturn & Manglik Dosha than normally marital bliss is completely ruled out. The native never enjoys the congenial bliss. He remains wanderer after the marriage or he can meet sudden loss of his life through trust in other women. A native whose chart is not conducive to marital felicity than even compatibility of chart cannot help to enjoy harmonious family life. If the in-depth study reveals no marriage or conflict marriage than marriage should be performed after careful study of the horoscope. The marriage should be performed after accurate Puja & Pran Pratishtha. However if charts show denial of marriage than matching of horoscope is meaningless. One should consult an astrologer or it needs a careful examination of horoscope. However in case of manglik Dosha the following upayas should be performed under the expert guidance of some astrologer. This will definitely help the native to lead a reasonably good married life.

ASTRO ADVICE FOR MANGLIK DOSHA

Deity : Ganpati , Hanumaan , Subarmanya, Kartikeyte.

Beej Mantra : Om Kraam Kreem Kraum Se Bhomaye Nameh.

Vedic Mantra : Dharni Garbh Subantu Vidut Kanti Sam Prabham Kumar Shakirhastam ch magal Pranayambhayeham.

Donation : Copper, Wheat, ghee, red cloth , flower sandal wood , dal Masoor, Gur.

Caution : It would be advisable if the upaya are performed under the expert guidance of astrologer else it can give the adverse effects